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"Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. When he began the reckoning, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents; and as he could not pay, his lord ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, `Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.' And out of pity for him the lord of that servant released him and forgave him the debt.
"So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart." (Mt 18: 21-35)
January 9, 2018
Dear Family of Mary!
"...My Son said to you to forgive and to love each other. I know that this is not always easy. Suffering makes you grow in spirit. For you to spiritually grow all the more, you must sincerely and truly forgive and love..." (January 2, 2018)
Here is something else that Jesus said to us about forgiveness. It is a long story, but worth pondering very slowly:
Then Peter came up and said to
him, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive
him? As many as seven times?"
Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven."
"Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. When he began the reckoning, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents; and as he could not pay, his lord ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, `Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.' And out of pity for him the lord of that servant released him and forgave him the debt.
"But that same servant, as he
went out, came upon one of his fellow servant who owed him a hundred
denarii; and seizing him by the throat he said, `Pay what you owe.' So
his fellow servant fell down and besought him, `Have patience with me,
and I will pay you.' He refused and went and put him in prison till he
should pay the debt.
"When his fellow servants saw
what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and
reported to their lord all that had taken place. Then his lord summoned
him and said to him, `You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt
because you besought me; and should not you have had mercy on your
fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?' And in anger his lord delivered
him to the jailers, till he should pay all his debt.
"So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart." (Mt 18: 21-35)
Several things strike me as interesting in this parable from Jesus.
First, the king had many servants who owed him money. Owing
the king was not unusual it seems. I think that if we are honest, we
have a King to whom we all owe a great deal, more than we can repay. All
of us were lost to sin, original and actual, with no hope of repaying
our Lord. Not one of us was in the black on that score. We are all
debtors to Jesus!
Second, during the reckoning, one servant, who owed a great
deal, fell on his knees and asked for mercy. He promised to repay the
King, but needed time. Notice how merciful this king was! He forgave the
entire debt. Unheard of!! Are we not like that servant when we enter
the confessional, admit our debt, and ask for mercy from the Lord? Do we
not get it in abundance, more than we could ever hope for?
Third, upon receiving forgiveness of his entire debt, the
servant shows no real understanding of what has just happened to him.
When he meets a fellow servant who owes him a little bit and asks for
mercy, he exacts punishment to the last penny, with no mercy. How could
there be such a disconnect? I suspect we are similar when we ask to be
forgiven for a sin, and in turn we refuse to forgive our neighbor,
judging him and rejecting him. Such disconnect is not unusual.
Fourth, the King discovers this ungrateful behavior, and
withdraws his forgiveness. There will be a day when we will have to face
the Lord, and explain our own unforgiveness.
What this tells me is that forgiveness is not something
unusual in the kingdom that Jesus describes. Forgiveness is part of the
fabric of life in that kingdom. The King forgave. The servants expected
forgiveness from one another. And when one of them would not forgive,
the other servants told the King about it. Forgiveness was part of daily
life in that kingdom.
I believe it is supposed to be part of the basic fabric of
our lives as well. It is not a special gift, but the way that we should
relate to one another day in and day out, seventy times seven times a
day! Who are we to withhold forgiveness when we have been given so much
mercy by our Father in heaven, so much forgiveness through Jesus, our
Lord, so much clemency through the Holy Spirit? We live in a Kingdom of
love, and love and forgiveness are inseparable.
Our Lady is honest with us in this message. She says that she
knows it is not easy to forgive, that suffering comes from being
treated wrongly, and it causes us pain. But she tells us not to fear
that suffering, because God will bless us in that suffering, suffering
that comes from forgiving and loving, and we will grow in spirit. We
will grow in the joy of holiness. No fear, God will not be outdone in
generosity.
We must "sincerely and truly forgive and love..."
What a good mother we have!
In Jesus, Mary and Joseph!
Cathy Nolan
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